ben, nice to have you start blogging again. truly, as what i had expected, those who went for the Big Thing are those i always and frequently meet in um. if not also, people like you and shu yee, i will definitely, somehow, meet whenever we are back for holidays.

as far as i am concerned, many are busy with works and final year projects, hence, they either, were already back in their universities or are staying back to making sure that their projects do not go perverse and faulty. whilst the number of people who are busy with those projects is relatively high, there are many too who do not use or rather feel wierd to mix around with old schoolmates. perhaps, during the schooling days, they were not close with us afterall. surely, there is a gap of communication, which i think i understand and comprehend well. one more group of people, on the other hand, feel that this Big Thing is just another waste of time activity. they prefer to indulge in their own sweet time doing their routine and daily chores instead of taking a few hours off to speak to old friends.

as a conclusion, there are a lot of different types of individuals. some may be eccentric or like geeks, some may be more opened and sporting to talk to anybody they meet and come across, some may be a bit more seclusive; prefering to stay out of the community, not anti-social but timid, some may be selfish and into their own class; this i would refer as anti-social, some may be a bit shy and embarass but once you are able to propel them to pop a word from their mouths; that's it, you will have a long non-stop conversation.