Ipoh, Perak Darul Ridzuan, Malaysia

At the heart of Kinta Valley. The capital city of the state of Perak. An opposition stronghold. Factory of brilliant people. Desolated through emigration of its inhabitants to other parts of the country and overseas. Yet... it is forever remembered by its people.

Monday, May 24, 2004

Why this happens again and again?
Nirmala Bonet, a 19-year-old indonesian maid was brutally abused by her employer's wife. As expected, the society from all walks of life expressed their outrage and shame on the horrific wounds inflicted on her.

Yes, what Malaysian could do is merely like this - express their "simpathy" and "dissatisfaction" though the mass media. They were similiar cases happened in the preceding days, and then they shouted of showing their anguished feeling; and this time, same thing happened and same reaction from our Malaysian. Everyone seems pointed their selfish finger to the abuser, because they are not involved directly, either the abuser or the one beng abused. This phenomena is poised to be the same for the next similiar 10 cases, I believe.

But, the question is: how about you if this happens to you? How if you are the next abuser? You might say: "aiyah.. it's impossible. I won't do such thing."

Who can 100% guarantee that you won't act so in the coming days? Can yourself sure you'll always under control and rational all the time? Life is abundance with challenges, pressure, turbulence and unexpected occurance, which will deteriorate your well-brought up behaviour.

So, let's see what problem with the employer's wife. Identify the root-entrenched problem, solve it and make sure the problem will always get rid from you.

My view is: shouting without purpose or totally ignoring the problem bring us to nowhere.
Let's show your sincere heart to build this caring society.


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